As the world continues to go haywire, it’s time to stop hiding on the sidelines. It’s time to step out and find your voice so that you can speak up. Here’s how.
Huge problems
Unless you are going through 2023 with your head in the sand, you’ll have noticed that the world is going haywire. Extreme weather events are hitting the headlines on a weekly basis, right-wing extremists are taking power in every region of the world, and multilateral negotiations are increasingly failing as geopolitical tensions fragment the world.
In the face of such turmoil, it’s easier to get caught up watching cute cat videos, plan your next vacation (where’s it not burning or flooding?), and believe national politicians who this time – really, honestly, this time for real – will step up to the challenge, accelerate progress, and set the world back on track (follow this week’s UN General Assembly head of state speeches to hear more).
A post-rights, post-values world?
In a world that is becoming post-rights (defined as not even trying to aspire to – or simply fully trampling on – the Universal Declaration of Human Rights, which recognizes “the inherent dignity and of the equal and inalienable rights of all members of the human family”), I fear we are also becoming a generation of post-values (right or wrong? Such a hassle to engage in such debates….)
For example, are you for or against abortion – and if not in all cases, when? Are you for or against using military force – and in which circumstances? Do you think rich people and corporations making lots of profits should be taxed – and to whom should these resources be distributed to? If a vaccine for a deadly disease has been discovered, should the technology be made available to everyone – even to those who don’t pay a cent? These are really tough questions (you can stop reading and switch back to cat videos now if you prefer).
Individual responsibility
Having worked in NGOs and campaigning organizations, and having learned a lot about how change has happened over many decades (through my degrees and work) and specifically in the sector I work in (global health), I strongly believe in individual responsibility. This means that all of us have a voice (that we can use), most of us have a vote (that we should use) – and to use these wisely, each one of us needs to have opinions.
Earlier on in my studies and career, I felt I had so much to learn. There were millions of books and thousands of experts around me. I felt comfortable discussing what other people had written or presented, but faced with situations where I’d have to voice my own opinion, I’d often fall silent. Did I really know everything about the issue that was being discussed? Wasn’t what I was considering saying just naive and embarrassing? Hadn’t someone more senior in the room hinted that I had too few grey hairs and too little lived experience to really have something of value to say among so many eminent experts? Surely someone else would make my point more eloquently and succinctly.
A few years into my career, I realized that not that many people were making the points I felt increasingly strongly about. Health as a human right, for every single person on the planet – why did no one say this in meetings or conferences? Why were they speaking about economic benefits and best buys with returns on investments? Or on gender equality, why were politicians and media only highlighting how to get women into the workforce, but not focusing on men sharing caretaking work or women being entitled to well-paid careers?
I began speaking out. Because if I didn’t, in most situations I found myself in, no one else would.
From voice to action
If you don’t know what you think about things – and what you stand for when you have to make a choice – it’s difficult to take action. For example, if you don’t really have an opinion on the planet becoming uninhabitable within just a few generations, you’ll probably continue with your current consumption and lifestyle patterns. You may half-heartedly like a social media post decrying climate change. Or if the person living across the globe who can’t access life-saving vaccines doesn’t really make a difference to you, you can get your fourth Covid19 booster and just move along with your day without a second thought.
It’s difficult to act – to vote and rally others to vote, to engage in campaigning and lobbying, to change your own habits and ways and encourage others to do so too – if you don’t really care. And in my experience, you rarely care about issues you don’t have opinions on.
I continue to see so many smart people who stay on the sidelines, silent. They’re waiting for someone else to speak out – just as I waited in silence earlier on in my studies and career. They’re waiting for some politician to change the world. And many just keep sticking their head back in the sand, every single day, because it’s someone else’s job to talk about values, and choices, and act to solve our current crises.
Discovering your values and voice
Having learned from some of the best activists, communicators, and advocates, and based on my own experience and path, here’s my advice on finding your own voice, and learning to speak up:
- Follow and connect with people who inspire you. Connecting with a fabulous orator like Barack Obama may not be possible for everyone, but you can follow and learn from anyone – whether an individual or an organization. Read books, watch Youtube videos, follow social media posts, listen to speeches. I have over the past decade literally asked colleagues and friends for lists of people who in their opinion do things well, and done my own searching using social media. My own criteria has been whether I can discern clear values that resonate with me (e.g. equity, gender equality, human rights).
- Learn what you don’t like. The above tip may push you to engage within an echo chamber. It’s therefore important to keep your eyes, ears, and mind open, and listen to what else is out there. What makes you angry? What is in your opinion going in the wrong direction? What do you disagree with? What goes against your core values? What are the issues no one is even raising?
- Learn to use your voice – by using your voice. Knowing where you stand, and what you want to change, is a first step. Speaking out means that you show where you stand, and make your position known. You don’t immediately need to hold a keynote speech at a conference on the topic but can begin by discussing more difficult topics at the dinner table, among friends, or in a smaller team meeting. When you speak (and write), you realize where you may have logic gaps, or need to do more research or thinking. It may feel daunting, but my tip here is also to be honest about what you still need to figure out. You are also allowed to change your views as you learn. If you’d already have all the answers and solutions, we wouldn’t have human rights violations or climate change!
- Engage. Repeat. Research shows that most people don’t hear your message until you have repeated it a few times – it simply doesn’t resonate among the thousands of other issues a listener or reader is focused on. Repetition is key. And if an issue is something you care about deeply, you’ll find this comes automatically. Don’t fear sounding like a broken record. Find new ways to explore and communicate issues, new angles, hooks, and opportunities. Unless gender equality or health as a human right have been achieved, stating your position once is unlikely to move the needle significantly.
- Dare to share. Unless you live in a country where your life and safety are at risk, share broadly. Social media reaches more people than you think, even if only a few people like your post – you’d be surprised by how many people read, listen, or see it – and reflect on it. If your employer has some ludicrous policy on not being allowed to stand for gender equality or human rights, my tip is to push back on such policies – or simply consider switching your employer.
With every single election, every dehumanizing clampdown on human rights, and every further rise in global temperatures, time is of the essence. It’s time to step out and find your voice so that you can speak up.